That’s my game, and that’s how I play it. Personally, I find the greatest sense of inner peace when I am challenging myself to be the best expression of myself that I am capable of. My measure of success is whether I feel at peace with myself, or not. In truth, I don’t personally define my life in terms of winning or losing. My approach to life is what I would describe as a coaching approach. And as long as I’m doing my best to translate what I’ve learned into ways to make the world a better place, I’m good with whatever else happens. As long as I’m learning, I’m making progress. Some of my greatest “successes” might look like failures to others. I strive to have no regrets, which for me means, I’ve honestly tried to honor my principles to the best of my ability, even if how I show up or what I accomplish is less than what I aspired to. Make a difference that serves a greater good.Be guided by my own sense of what is right and true.
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With the “winning through approval” approach to life, any victories are fleeting. If winning for you means acquiring approval, things or power, you’ve placed the measuring stick for your happiness and sense of success in someone else’s hands. When you accept someone else’s definition of winning, you hand over your power to that entity-whoever or whatever it may be-to bestow their accolades upon you.
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How you define your “game” will define your life. If life is a game, what does it mean to win?